When is it ok 2 getr forceful w a girl?

I had a female over at my house today and after I had taken all I could take with her attitude I told her to leave my house. She smirked at me and told me no. I asked repeadedly and she continued to give the same response. I even pointed a fire extinguisher at her but that did nothing. I finally pushed her towards the door. I did not hit her , or knock her down. I just kept pushing her towards the door. Is that wrong of me to put my hand on her even after asking her to leave my house repeatedly?